Are women only after getting that diamond on their finger? Of course not! They need something that’s worth much more than that.
Being in a serious relationship has taught me many valuable things. One of the most important things I’ve learned is what women really need.
Yes, men can give women love. Yes, men can try being nice. They can also buy women anything in the world.
But to really find your way to a woman’s heart and connect with them on a more intimate level, you have to know what a woman really needs.
The Right Type of Attention
Whether they admit it or not, women love attention. There are so many men that give women the “wrong” type of attention, so imagine how much they value men who give them the type of attention they really want!
The right type of attention involves loving a woman for their strengths and weaknesses. It involves paying attention to how their day went, how they’re feeling, and what’s on their mind.
Women feel important and good when men give the right type of attention.
To Look & Feel Beautiful
In my relationship, my woman loves to look good. Not because she wants to impress other men or get the wrong type of attention, but she does it to show me I’m important. She is willing to do the work to look beautiful
Appreciation for the Little Things
Just like men, women like to be appreciated. It makes them want to do more and more to keep men happy because they’re hard work is going noticed.
The big things are easy to notice, but when men notice the little things too, it makes women feel important, special, and cared for.
A man that appreciates women for the little things is a man that knows what a woman needs.
Unconditional Love
The word love is has been misused too many times. What a woman needs is unconditional love. They don’t need a man who says they love them and has the guts to walk out on them the next day.
That’s not love.
When the love is unconditional, walking out is never an option.
They need a man who’s willing to be there through the thick and thin. They need a man who knows there’s no point in arguing because the relationship WILL be there tomorrow and the next day.
Support & Comfort
Women need support from their partners. No matter if a woman is right or wrong, men don’t need to tell them. They just need men to listen and understand.
Once they vent, they will pick themselves back up. Once they have a man’s ear, they know they have the support they need.
Group Discussion
If you’re a man, what are some of I things I missed out on in this article that you can share with us?
Women, you know yourselves better than I do. What do you think about this article?
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#1 by Dawn on February 14th, 2010
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I would have to agree. For me the major breakdown for my marriage was the fact taht my ex just did not listen to me. He kept saying “i buy you everything”…but I kept telling him that is not what I wanted. Stuff is stuff, I can live without stuff…I need YOU!
Too often, and women do it too, we concentrate more on what we want to give, and not enough on what our partners need.
Hopefully, I learned enough to take that lesson to my next relationship.
xoxo to all of those on this day of Love…love yourself, and love your partner!
#2 by Faizal Nisar on February 14th, 2010
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Dawn welcome back!
I love what you said here…”Too often, and women do it too, we concentrate more on what we want to give, and not enough on what our partners need. ”
That’s something that’s true for many relationships and because of what you said, I’m going to see my relationship from a whole new perspective! Thanks!
#3 by Ben Weston on February 18th, 2010
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I think the biggest ones are unconditional love, and as Dawn pointed out, being genuinely heard.
It’s funny what actually asking what your partner wants and needs will do. With my relationship, just knowing that our needs were both understood, helped resolved many issues.
Great tips Faizal!
-Ben
#4 by Faizal Nisar on February 18th, 2010
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Hey Ben, good to see you at BeTrulyHappy.
Yea, I think having the open communication with your partner makes the relationship easier to handle. It makes everything so much easier!!
Thanks for stopping by. Hope to see you again soon.
#5 by Faiza K. on March 9th, 2010
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Faizal!! I am soo happy for you!! and so proud! I was just reading your page, and im sooo shocked! I never seen this side of you, but i like it. Im really happy for you. Reading all this got me thinking, ‘he’s really amazing..’ Well keep up the good work, i’ll be reading =)
Take care..
and this article. is SO true..
#6 by Faizal Nisar on March 9th, 2010
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Hey Faiza, good to hear from you after so long! I’m glad you like the website and I’ll keep up the good work. Keep in touch.